Doing Death Differently

Welcome! I’m Lupe, a death doula living and working in Western Washington on Coast Salish land. I am dedicated to providing quality end of life care and planning for those looking to do death differently.

What we do

End of Life Planning Session.

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A two hour session in which we sit down and talk about your end of life needs. Be prepared for death, and take time to enjoy life.

Veterans Funerary Benefits Resources.

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Doula Damn Thing is a proud supporter of the Wounded Warrior Project, and is part of a community of military veterans and veterans affairs experts to help answer any and all questions you might have.

Servicios en español.

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Sabemos que durante estos momentos difíciles es importante tener a alguien que entienda sus necesidades específicas. Ofrecemos todos los servicios a nuestra comunidad de habla hispana.

When a loved one dies, we find ourselves overwhelmed with emotion. In that cycle of emotion, happiness is one that often comes up. Often times we find ourselves feeling a sense of guilt for enjoying a life that the deceased can no longer be a part of. Happiness doesn’t take away from our love for them. We don’t have to be in a constant state of anguish to show we are hurting and we are grieving.

“That it will never come again is what makes life so sweet”

-Emily Dickinson



Lupe Tejada Diaz
Doula Damn Thing


(360) 286-7608